Erectile dysfunction takes more than a
physical toll. The emotional impact on a man and his partner can
prove just as difficult. It is common for men with ED to feel anger,
frustration, sadness, or a lack of confidence. However, the
condition can be treated.
The first step in addressing your concerns
about ED is to be honest with yourself, your partner, and your
doctor. Once you have brought ED out into the open, coping with it
as you go through treatment will be easier and less stressful.
Communication is essential to successful diagnosis and treatment as
well as to helping your partner understand your feelings.
While you are being treated for ED, it is
important to be patient with your progress. A treatment that works
for one person may not work for another. It is also important to
know that the treatment you choose may not work the first time or
may not work every time. For some couples, sex therapy may help
partners support each other and maintain intimacy while coping with
ED. It may also help to learn more about others' experiences with
ED. Contact your doctor about support groups in your area.
If you are diagnosed with erectile
dysfunction, feelings of anger and resentment that you may naturally
experience may harm your relationship with your partner unless you
find a way to communicate them. While these emotions are
understandable, it is important to take into account that your
partner is also affected by your ED. Moreover, feeling comfortable
talking about your relationship
treatment. A man who has difficulty sharing
and resolving his feelings about ED may make the problem worse.
The best way to communicate with your partner
is to try to get past the initial embarrassment and awkwardness and
confront the problem head-on. If you have difficulty discussing the
topic, counseling may help.
For some couples, sex therapy may help
partners support each other and maintain intimacy while coping with
ED.
A partner of someone experiencing ED can help
by discussing feelings honestly while showing care and concern.
Rather than assigning blame, it can be much more effective to take
the approach that dealing with the problem will be a team effort.
Meantime, you can together explore alternative techniques to find
sexual pleasure so that there's no pressure to "perform." Focus on
ways to solve ED, rather than how ED affects your relationship. Give
your partner positive feedback so that he's willing to discuss his
feelings. Remind him that there are many options for successful
treatment. If your partner does not succeed initially, encourage him
to continue to visit the doctor and explore other options.
Men can often improve their erectile function
by making changes in their daily habits. Further, these steps help
men lead healthier lives overall.
Men who maintain a healthy weight, who
exercise regularly, and who reduce stress and anxiety lower their
risk of erectile dysfunction. Men with high cholesterol may damage
the linings of blood vessels throughout the body, including those in
the penis. Cholesterol can also harden, narrow, or block these
arteries, leading to erectile dysfunction. You can lower your
cholesterol through diet, exercise, and medication.
Nonsmokers have a lower risk of
atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries), and men who quit
smoking may partly or fully restore erectile function. Excess
drinking can inhibit erectile functioning and can affect production
of the hormone testosterone, affecting sex drive and erections. More
than 80 percent of chronic alcoholics have chronic ED. Illegal drugs
can also cause impotence. Men with diabetes risk damaging the
arteries and nerve endings serving the penis if their diabetes is
out of control. Diet, exercise, and medical control for diabetes can
all help men avoid risk of diabetes-related ED.
The first step in treating ED is to find the
underlying cause; the doctor can then decide what sort of treatment
is likely to work. If the problem continues, a number of nonsurgical
options can help a man gain and maintain erections.
Sildenafil (Viagra) was the first oral
medicine approved to treat erectile dysfunction. It works by
increasing the flow of blood to the penis so that a man can get an
erection when he is sexually stimulated. Though the directions
advise men to take the drug one hour before sexual activity,
research indicates that the drug can sometimes work when taken from
30 minutes to eight hours before intercourse.
Take Viagra exactly as directed. Do not
increase or decrease the dosage of Viagra or take the drug more
often than prescribed by your doctor. Do not take Viagra more than
once a day. Men who are on nitrate medications such as
nitroglycerine should not take Viagra, since the combination of
Viagra and nitrates can cause blood pressure to dip too low
(hypotension). The most common side effects of Viagra are dyspepsia
(indigestion), nasal congestion, flushing, headaches, and transient
visual disturbance.
Other oral medications that work in a similar
fashion are tadalafil (Cialis) and vardenafil (Levitra). These two
drugs are in the same class of medications that includes sildenafil
(Viagra) and have generally similar success rates and side effects.
Cialis (tadalafil), however, has a longer duration of action, up to
36 hours.
For this treatment, known as "transurethral
pharmacotherapy or MUSE™,"
the man with erectile dysfunction places a suppository into the
urinary tube (urethra) using a plastic applicator. The suppository
contains the medicine alprostadil, which is absorbed into the nearby
erection chambers (corpora cavernosa). Alprostadil belongs to a
group of drugs called vasodilators --drugs that
increase blood flow by relaxing and expanding blood vessels. It is
identical to a naturally occurring substance found in the body that
helps keep the blood vessels open, and it helps treat ED by
increasing the blood flow to the penis.
Though suppositories appear to be less
effective than either injections or vacuum therapy, the drug can be
used to treat erectile dysfunction due to a wide variety of causes.
Before inserting the suppository, you should
urinate; the small amount of urine left in the urethra will help
dissolve the suppository after you insert it. To help dissolve the
suppository, roll your penis between your hands for 10 seconds. If
you feel any stinging, continue this motion to help stop it.
Sitting, standing, or walking for 10 minutes while an erection
develops can help increase the blood flow to your penis to gain a
proper erection. Alprostadil usually begins to work in about five to
10 minutes. Intercourse should be attempted within 10 to 30 minutes
of using this medication. An erection may continue after
ejaculation.
Do not insert more than two doses of
alprostadil within a 24-hour period,
and do not use any more than the doctor-recommended
dose. This could result in permanent damage to your penis.
When using a suppository form of alprostadil,
it is advisable to use a condom if having sexual intercourse with a
pregnant woman. While it is unlikely that a fetus will be harmed by
the medication, the condom will protect it from exposure. The
effects of alprostadil on early pregnancy are still unknown.
Possible side effects include mild bleeding
or spotting from the urethra and stinging of the urethra. Contact
your doctor if you experience curving of the penis with pain during
an erection, an erection that lasts four to six hours with pain,
swelling of or pain in the testes, dizziness, faintness, pelvic
pain, or flulike symptoms.
Men who do not have erectile dysfunction
should not use alprostadil as a sexual aid. If this medicine is not
used properly, permanent damage to the penis and
loss of the ability to have erections could result.
Injections
In intracavernosal injection therapy,
more commonly called penile self-injection, a man injects a small
amount of medicine into the side of his penis using a tiny needle
and syringe. The medicine, usually prostaglandin E1, papaverine,
phentolamine, or combinations of these drugs, relaxes the blood
vessels, allowing blood to flow into the penis. Injection therapy is
effective in treating a wide variety of erection problems caused by
blood vessel, nerve, and psychological conditions. The most common
adverse side effects are pain and penile scarring (fibrosis).
Patients with cerebral vascular disease or severe cardiovascular
disease might not be able to tolerate the dizziness and high blood
pressure occasionally encountered with injection therapy. Painful
erections that last longer than two to three hours can usually be
controlled by proper dosing and by following treatment guidelines.
The drug alprostadil, which
relaxes and expands the blood vessels (allowing more blood to flow
into the penis), comes in several mixtures that can be injected into
the base or the side of the penis with a fine needle. An erection
usually occurs within 20 minutes.
Be sure that you know which product you are
using and that you fully understand the proper way to mix the
injection. Do not use alprostadil more often than your doctor has
ordered or in larger amount; misuse could cause permanent damage to
the penis.
After an injection is mixed, alprostadil must
be used immediately. Throw away any unused mixture in the syringe;
it cannot be stored for later injection. Do not reuse your needles.
Contact your doctor if any of the following
symptoms become worse or do not go away: bleeding at the site of
injection, pain at the site of injection, painful erection, bruising
or clotted blood in the area of the injection (usually caused by an
incorrect injection). Also, report curving of the penis with pain
during an erection, an erection that lasts four to six hours with
pain, swelling of or pain in the testes, dizziness, faintness,
pelvic pain, or flulike symptoms.
Men who do not have erectile dysfunction
should not use alprostadil as a sexual aid. If this medicine is not
used properly, permanent damage to the penis and
loss of the ability to have erections could result.
Vacuum constriction device

The vacuum constriction device is a cylinder
that is placed over the penis. When the air is pumped out of the
cylinder, blood is drawn in, causing an erection. The user then
maintains an erection by slipping a band off the cylinder and onto
the base of the penis. The band can stay in place up to 20 minutes.
The vacuum device can be safely used to treat
most causes of erectile failure. A lack of spontaneity and the fact
that using the device can be cumbersome and may cause some
discomfort seem to be the biggest concerns of patients.
A very simple Aid is a
Rubber Band around the base of the Penis and
this will help recover the weakness in the
penis. Wear the flat band only during Sex and
remove it promptly.
Surgery
When there is a clear medical cause for
erectile dysfunction that is unlikely to resolve or improve
naturally, another treatment option for men might be a
surgical penile implant or vascular reconstruction.
Penile implant. The simplest
type of prosthesis consists of a pair of malleable rods surgically
implanted within the spongy erection chambers of the penis. Today,
many men instead choose a hydraulic, inflatable prosthesis
that allows a man to have an erection whenever he chooses. The
penile prosthesis is also an option for men whose erections are
curved because of scarring.
The inflatable penile prosthesis consists of
two cylinders that are inserted in the penis and connected by tubing
to a separate reservoir of fluid implanted under the groin muscles.
A pump is also connected to the system and sits under the loose skin
of the scrotal sac, between the testicles. To inflate the
prosthesis, the man presses on the pump (which does not require
putting pressure on the testicles). The pump transfers fluid from
the reservoir to the cylinders in the penis, inflating them.
Pressing on a deflation valve above the pump
returns the fluid to the reservoir, deflating the penis.
The prosthesis does not change sensation on
the skin of the penis, a man's ability to reach orgasm, or
ejaculation. Scars from the surgery are small; most people won't
notice that a man had an inflatable penile implant. Between 90 and
95 percent of inflatable prosthesis surgeries result in implants
that produce erections suitable for intercourse. Possible
complications from the surgery include uncontrolled bleeding,
infection, scar tissue formation, and mechanical failure. Men
usually cannot get an erection without inflating the implant, and if
the implant is removed, the man may never again have natural
erections.
Vascular reconstructive surgery.
During this procedure, an option when blood flow to the penis is
blocked, surgeons transfer an artery from an abdominal muscle to the
penis. This technique creates a path for blood to flow to the penis
that bypasses the area of blockage.
Only a small percentage of men, mostly young
men with trauma leading to the penis, may be candidates for this
surgery. The technique is technically difficult, costly, and not
always effective.
Sex therapy
A patient whose erectile failure has a clear
psychological cause should undergo sex counseling
before he pursues any invasive treatments. Sex therapy works best to
treat erectile dysfunction if a man is generally healthy and has
normal erections during sleep, normal blood tests, and a normal
physical exam. Therapy can also help when ED is caused by stress
from work, finances, relationship problems, or poor sexual
communication.
Treatment is a short-term form of counseling,
generally involving five to 20 sessions. (If a man drops out of
therapy after only one or two sessions, successful treatment of ED
is unlikely.) During the sessions, the counselor will give the
patient "assignments" to do at home, such as practicing sexual
communication skills, reading books about sexuality, and touching
exercises that are designed to take away the pressure to perform
during sex.
Not only does sex therapy work best when a
man's sexual partner gets involved with the treatment; the
therapy also helps a man's partner cope with the problem.
When a partner gets involved with therapy, men resolve
stress-related erectile dysfunction 50 to 70 percent of the time.
When a man goes through counseling alone, the success rate is lower.
Even when erectile dysfunction has a clear
physical cause, psychological problems sometimes contribute to
erectile failure. Several sessions of sexual counseling can help a
man who is going to receive medical or surgical treatment for
erectile dysfunction. A counselor can guide a couple as they decide
on a particular treatment, or the counselor can help the couple
improve their sexual communication and lovemaking skills. A man who
is single may benefit from counseling on how to talk to a new
partner about penile injections or a vacuum constriction device.
Testosterone replacement
therapy
The male hormone testosterone is produced by
the testicles and is responsible for the proper development of male
sexual characteristics. It is also important for maintaining muscle
bulk, red blood cells, bone growth, sense of well-being, and sexual
function. Though inadequate testosterone production is not a common
cause of erectile dysfunction, some men with low testosterone might
see increased sexual functioning from testosterone replacement
therapy.
As a man ages, the amount of testosterone in
his body gradually declines, starting after age 30. Other causes of
testosterone deficiency include injury or infection to the
testicles, chemotherapy or radiation treatment for cancer, genetic
abnormalities, hemochromatosis (too much iron), pituitary gland
dysfunction, medications including prostate drugs and steroids,
AIDS, stress, and alcoholism. Testosterone deficiency can cause
decreased sex drive, decreased sense of well-being, depression,
concentration and memory difficulties, and erectile dysfunction.
Testosterone levels fluctuate in the body
throughout the day, and a doctor may test the amount of the hormone
in your blood several times to diagnose low testosterone. If your
testosterone levels are low, your doctor may prescribe one of
several different types of testosterone replacement: intramuscular
injections, testosterone patches, or testosterone gels. Because oral
hormones may lead to liver abnormalities, no pills exist in the
United States that provide adequate levels of testosterone
replacement.
Though testosterone replacement therapy is
generally safe, it is associated with several conditions including
acne, oily skin, mild fluid retention, stimulation of prostate
tissue and increased urination, breast enlargement, worsening of
sleep apnea, and decreased testicular size. Some laboratory side
effects of testosterone replacement therapy include changes in blood
cholesterol, increased red cell count, and a decrease in sperm count
(which can produce infertility, especially in younger men).
Since testosterone may stimulate
prostate growth, the hormone can also accelerate the growth
of prostate cancer. It is important for all men considering
testosterone replacement therapy to undergo screening for
prostate cancer before starting treatment. Further, men
with breast cancer should not take testosterone replacement therapy.
Alternative treatments
Some men with erectile dysfunction choose to
treat their condition with alternative medicines or techniques.
These alternative treatments, which include nutritional
supplements, herbal remedies, and acupuncture, fall outside
standard western medical practice; many have not been evaluated for
effectiveness in clinical trials. It is important to consult a
physician about erectile dysfunction to determine the cause and
receive appropriate treatment for the condition. Men considering
alternative treatments should seek the advice of a healthcare
provider.
Popular nutritional supplements to treat
erectile dysfunction include bioflavonoids, zinc, vitamin C,
vitamin E, and flaxseed meal. Supplemental doses of the
amino acid arginine have helped some men with ED,
according to research. Some people claim that herbal remedies such
as Asian ginseng and Ginkgo biloba
help improve sexual functioning. You should consult a doctor before
taking any herbal supplement to weigh the risks and potential
benefits of herbal remedies.
Although some ED patients have shown
improvement from low levels of the hormone dehydroepiandrosterone
(DHEA), experts have expressed concerns about the drug's long-term
safety.
Acupuncture, a technique
that involves sticking very fine needles into specific points on the
body, is believed by some to stimulate the body's ability to resist
or overcome illnesses and conditions. Acupuncture has helped some
men with erectile dysfunction.